Have you ever been quilted into ?

Your relationship should not be based on , so if she gets upset because of this you should definitely talk to her about it. Tell her that you really care for her and tell her your reasons for not wanting too. Reure her that it has nothing to do with you being attracted to her. If she truly likes you she will understand if not you might want to let her go. Talking is one of the hardest things to do, but communication is key to a good relationship, it has taken me awhile to figure that out. I have had performance anxiety and the only way I ever got over it was to talk to my gf about it and trust me that was not an easy thing to talk about, but she understood and said she would work with me. Think of this as a positive thing it can be like a test to see if she really cares about you or not!